Healing and empowerment seem elusive for those of us who have survived abuse and trauma. Understanding WHY you do WHAT you do speaks to the awareness needed in order to address and heal. Understanding the roots of your behaviors is essential. You don’t need to remember every single detail of your trauma, but you do need to know the connection between your current maladaptive/unhealthy behaviors and your trauma.
...The holiday season often conjures up images of warmth, joy, and togetherness with family and loved ones. Doesn’t this remind you of the sappy Hallmark movies? For many of us, the holidays can feel heavy. Just even thinking about the holidays can bring up unpleasant memories as well as a fair share of family drama and stress. Whether it’s disagreements, unresolved conflicts, or simply the pressure to have a perfect holiday, coping with family dynamics during this time can be challenging.
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