The first step is to become aware of your self-sabotaging behaviors. Notice when you’re avoiding tasks, procrastinating, or engaging in negative self-talk. Awareness is the foundation of any change. The easiest way to track your patterns is by keeping a journal. Each day, track events that bothered or triggered you, your thoughts/beliefs, your emotions/feelings, and of course, your behaviors or actions. It is much easier to work on change once you see your patterns.
...The holiday season can be a challenging time for many people, especially those who have experienced trauma. Navigating family dynamics during this period can bring up a range of emotions and stressors. As a stress management and historical trauma specialist, I understand the importance of addressing these challenges with a trauma-informed approach. Here are tools for family healing during the Holiday Season.
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