11 Ways to Help You Maintain Sobriety and Inner Peace During the Holidays

By Karen Robinson

Heal Thrive Dream 

Guest Post.

Elizabeth R. Kipp is a Stress Management Specialist, Ancestral Clearing® Practitioner, Trauma-Trained and Yoga-Informed Addiction Recovery Coach (Recovery 2.0), Yoga Teacher (RYT), and author of The Way Through Chronic Pain: Tools to Reclaim Your Healing Power. Find Elizabeth here https://elizabeth-kipp.com

The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and togetherness for many. However, it can also be challenging, especially for those recovering from addiction. The abundance of alcohol and the pressure to drink socially can create difficult situations. But fear not! Enjoying the holidays while staying sober and maintaining your inner peace is possible. Here are some practical and effective ways to help you stay on track during this festive season.

Build a Support System

The first step to maintaining your sobriety during the holidays is surrounding yourself with a strong and reliable support system. Let your friends and family know about your commitment to sobriety so they can provide the emotional support you need. Attend support group meetings, connect with a sponsor, or speak with a therapist regularly to keep yourself accountable.

Plan Ahead

Planning is vital when it comes to staying sober during the holidays. Have a strategy in place before attending gatherings or events. Know your triggers and develop a plan to cope with them. Consider bringing a sober friend to events or having a buddy you can call if you feel the temptation to drink. Make a schedule that includes self-care activities like exercise, meditation, or hobbies to keep yourself occupied.

Have an Exit Strategy

Sometimes, removing yourself from a situation that could compromise your sobriety is best. Create an exit strategy to leave a gathering if you start feeling uncomfortable or tempted to drink. A ready-made excuse or a friend you can call for a quick escape can be a lifesaver.

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Practice Mindfulness

One of the keys to maintaining inner peace is practicing mindfulness. Be present in the moment and focus on what’s happening right now. Mindfulness can help you deal with stress, anxiety, and cravings. When you feel the urge to drink, take a few deep breaths, ground yourself, and remind yourself of your commitment to sobriety.

Avoid High-Risk Situations

Recognize that not all holiday gatherings are created equal. If you know that alcohol and other temptations will be present at a particular event, consider skipping it. Prioritize your well-being and choose to attend gatherings that are more sober-friendly. There’s no need to put yourself in high-risk situations when you can make safer choices.

Communicate Your Needs

Don’t be afraid to communicate your needs to your loved ones. Let them know you would appreciate their support in keeping the environment alcohol-free or providing non-alcoholic alternatives. Those who care about you will likely be more than willing to accommodate your needs.

Enjoy Non-Alcoholic Alternatives

One of the best ways to maintain sobriety during the holidays is to find non-alcoholic alternatives you genuinely enjoy. Many delicious mocktails and alcohol-free beverages are available. Experiment with creating your own festive drinks so you can still feel like you’re part of the celebration without compromising your sobriety.


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Keep Your Eye on the Prize – Focus on Connection, Not Consumption

The holidays are about connecting with loved ones, not consuming alcohol. Shift your focus from what’s in your glass to the people around you. Engage in meaningful conversations, share stories, and savor the moments spent with your friends and family. The more you concentrate on the connections, the less you’ll think about alcohol.

Keep Your Expectations Real

The holiday season can be stressful, with high expectations and sometimes strained family dynamics. Setting realistic expectations can help you avoid disappointments and reduce anxiety. It’s okay to step back if things become overwhelming.

Step into Service – Volunteer or Give Back

One way to maintain inner peace during the holidays is by giving back to the community or volunteering. Helping others can be incredibly fulfilling and reminds you of the bigger picture. It can also provide a sense of purpose that can help keep you on track with your sobriety.

Embrace Gratitude – It Heals

The holiday season offers the perfect opportunity to nurture a profound sense of gratitude. Instead of fixating on limitations, redirect your attention to what you can accomplish and the blessings you hold dear. Conveying appreciation for your sobriety, the unwavering support you’re blessed with, and the constructive transformations in your life can strengthen your dedication to maintaining sobriety and cultivate a positive outlook.

Staying sober during the holidays and maintaining your inner peace is entirely possible with the right strategies and support system. Remember to prioritize your well-being, plan ahead, practice mindfulness, and communicate your needs to your loved ones. By focusing on connection rather than consumption and finding non-alcoholic alternatives you enjoy, you can have a joyful and peaceful holiday season while staying true to your commitment to sobriety. Lastly, remember that it’s okay to ask for help and lean on your support system when needed. The holidays are a time for celebration, and your celebration can be just as meaningful, if not more so, when you’re sober and at peace.

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Karen Robinson

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I'm licensed therapist with 25 years of clinical experience. Service driven, specializing in trauma recovery, anxiety, and depression, holistic care, and transformation to create an impact for trauma survivors globally. Services include coaching, therapy, virtual courses, digital products, and on-line memberships.

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